So I feel as if I’m not important to my family (I live with them currently). My mother, specifically, can be inconsiderate. Whenever she is hurting and I need her to help me do something, she’ll get some rest instead, which is fine. However, she does this every time she hurts. Since I can’t drive yet, I need her to take me places (ex. shopping for school supplies). Every time I request she take me somewhere, she says the same thing, “I’m hurting, so I can’t. Maybe tomorrow?” The next day, she says it again, and the next day, and the next. It makes me feel like I can’t trust her to meet my needs. I want to confront her about it, but I’m not sure what to say. I don’t want to hurt her feelings. Any ideas?