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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver
Thank you for your help in processing all of this 
I am not really hopeful, this has been going on for almost two months now. I would like to think we could still work together and repair this rupture but both t and I are stubborn creatures and we both believe we are right. I think in order for us to still work together I would have to submit to her demands |
Honestly, there would be no point for the therapy work if you would submit to her demand. Doing that would completely undermine your therapy. You would not gain anything from that, just delaying the important work you need to do for yourself.
I can imagine that a repair of this rupture would be possible if you both could keep your opinion and you would not agree, BUT the T would really accept your stance as well and stop pushing. She could disagree with you and think that you ought to report but in order to help you and work with you she would have to manage that wish by her own without forcing it on you.
If you think that solution is not possible then I'm afraid that you are probably just wasting your time with her. All these ghostings and cancellations are just side effects when the real elephant in the room is still not properly addressed.
Honestly, if I would imagine something like this in my therapy then I would probably just constantly talk about it until we would find a proper resolution or I would become convinced that there will be no proper resolution and thus there would be no point in continuing with this T.