Thanks. Yes, I thought about that too, that a T thinks a client is more stable and then chooses to change boundaries. I would find it very risky though as if my T found me more stable, perhaps that would just be for that session and next I feel another way.

That happens to me often, one time I sit crying a lot and next I don´t cry at all. But I´m sure some T:s do as you describe it, and sometimes they´re right about the client is actually more stable but in many cases I think it turns into the client feeling dismissed or similar.