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Old Aug 05, 2018, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted by QuietMind View Post
Agree.

I've straight up told my T I wish she was a substitute parent to me, I view her as a substitute parent, that she had adopted me when I was a child etc. She has always accepted these intense attachment feelings. Hell, in her modality of schema therapy, the clinician books say it's not uncommon for clients to have such feelings and to indeed sometimes even see the therapist as a substitute parent and keep in contact after therapy ends.
To be fair I've said that sort of stuff too I think, and he has been fine with it in a "these are my feelings" way. It's just that somehow he took the message to be something different from me just expressing my feelings.
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