Thanks Fly! And I think you're exactly right. I want to help, but I know that right now, it won't help me move on. I have created space between us and told him for the time being, I need to remain distant in order to get over him. I take a whole month and I won't talk to him, and I completely erase him out of my life, meaning no e-mails, no IM's, no cell phone, nothing. I erase him out of my phone, off my buddy list, everything!! For one whole month, I am without him, and it helps me realize I don't need him and I am fine without him. Usually, that time allows me the ability to be friends with my exes further down the line. I have tried this for everyone I have broken up with and it works well.

We'll see how well this works with him...

Thank you Fly for your advice!!