Sometimes I ask my husband, sometimes I don't. Just let him know that next time you do this you will ask him the night before so you can both plan. You are not an inconsiderate person. It was an unplanned spur of the moment thing.
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True happiness comes not when we get rid of all our problems, but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice patience and learn.~Richard Carlson
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