Indeed, which is why I decided I definitely am not going to fly there, he would have to be willing to fly to me and that's unlikely, so that means it must wait until he moves to Canada because cheapness and I can just drive there which is at ? point in the future. If it's meant to be it will find a way to work. If not, I will try to find someone else (lul gl to me), and I am still considering that so I haven't gone and closed any of my dating profiles.