I can really relate to this at the moment and for a long time with my t.
There are certain subjects I know to stay away from that will trigger her and other subjects that she will always take like a dog with a bone.

I also know not to talk about relationships for a while because hers is a very sensitive subject right now and she will get upset.

I kinda feel a bit hopeless in therapy at the moment and am weighing up the pros and cons. So far there are way more cons. I really want to leave but I am also very attached!