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Old Aug 06, 2018, 02:32 AM
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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver View Post
I can really relate to this at the moment and for a long time with my t.
There are certain subjects I know to stay away from that will trigger her and other subjects that she will always take like a dog with a bone.

I also know not to talk about relationships for a while because hers is a very sensitive subject right now and she will get upset.

I kinda feel a bit hopeless in therapy at the moment and am weighing up the pros and cons. So far there are way more cons. I really want to leave but I am also very attached!
Oh, man!!!

It’s [i]TALK THERAPY[/i not NOT TALK THERAPY!!!

Speaking for myself, in my 35+ years of therapy if I had felt that I couldn’t talk of anything/everything I would be more screwed up than I am now. Maybe others just function better — maybe it’s me.

This is an amendment to my replies to the OP, weaver, I don’t mean to call you out specifically — just responded with ire.

Sorry.
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