Absolutely. People do remain faithful and there are many people out there that take relationshps very seriously. Think about it. You are one that strives for this. You can't think you're alone in a world of only unfaithful people. If you can do it you have to know there are others out there like you. I take it seriously and have never cheated and I'm older than you, been through being cheated on myself so don't think I take this lightly at all. It hurts and sometimes it does seems like more people will go the route of adultery but here's the thing.
Cheaters are always looking for others to hook up with and so therefore by that fact alone are easier to find, are more ready to get into a relationship so they are also more visible. They dont' take relationships seriously so they are easy to jump in (not really jumping in since they keep one foot on the other side of the fence but you get my point). The person that's going to be devoted and committed is going to be 1. harder to find as they are going to be more picky lik you and I, 2. are not going to be as quick to commit, and 3. take a lot more work for them to be convinced YOU are devoted and committed because more than likely they've been where you are at some point.
Take heart, they are out there just find your own way, take care of yourself and don't get in a rush to find someone, the right one is never easy or a quick find.
hope this helps.
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