Thank you all for your help and advice.
I have rang a few ts but had no luck. They didn’t answer and never rang back.
I am trying to manage without ts help but it’s really hard.
I think that our work is at an impasse as you said NP and all these ruptures are not resolving anything just adding salt to the wound.
I also feel like t doesn’t have any space because I have cancelled, so she is getting her own back.