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Originally Posted by howaitorozu
Imo, there's a difference between not wanting to date someone because you are genuinely concerned your differences in lifestyle or education level might present problems in the relationship and not wanting to date someone because you feel they are beneath you.
It's like the difference between a guy not wanting to date a woman because he isn't attracted to her and a guy being attracted to a woman yet not wanting to date her because she isn't conventionally attractive enough to be his trophy girlfriend.
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That's a very interesting perspective. I fear that subconsciously I may feel that he's beneath me in some way (which is a terrible way to feel), as he's typically NOT the type of guy I would date, but since what I've done in the past hasn't worked, I figured "why not"
...and he was SO persistent. It feels nice top be pursued... so now I worry that I may be more attracted to the ATTENTION instead of him as a person.
I haven't ruled him out... yet, but I keep going back and forth in my head. He's a REALLY nice guy and I can tell he really likes me. I certainly don't want to hurt his feelings or lead him on.
This is a tough one for me. Part of me wants to ditch him because there's no "spark" (which is usually just hormones), while the other part of me thinks I should wait it out a bit more.