We've talked on voice chats plenty of times, just not video. But yeah I get the concern. I'd be more concerned if he was pushing to meet me tho and/or trying to get something out of me, but he has done none of those things. I'm the one pushing for more with him. I also know that part of the reason I'm on the internet is because of my anxiety and I would never let just anyone see me in a video chat, that doesn't make me fake.

It is a concern I keep in mind though. I would never meet him without a video chat first, and multiple of them.