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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver
I am really struggling with life right now!
T is not as available as she used to be between our ruptures and semi repairs, t has been very busy and often I don’t get an appointment with her.
We have no set day or time and mostly this is because of the way I work.
I used to be able to ask t for help or support but since all of our ruptures lately, I feel like I can’t text her anymore!
Does anyone have any suggestions?
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i made the mistake with old T of not being open with my feelings/needs...so this time around, I am pretty open and honest about what I think and what I need. I do have a bit of a freakout when she is willing to give me the things I need (transitional items, etc) and I may pull away, or refuse them...but I do tell her about wanting/needing them and she has given to me most of them...like recording herself reading a chapter from my favorite book to help me self regulate when I wake up from a nightmare, or just a story to listen to to help me fall asleep.
An unusual request, to be sure, but not an unreasonable one.
you cant get it if you dont ask. write a note?