I know sadism and masochism are no longer considered mental illnesses in and of themselves. However, do you think they are tied to mental illness generally or independant?

I am a masochist. I could get more in depth, but I'll keep it to myself. I have past trauma and PTSD, borderline that I think contribute to my masochism. For me I think there is a correlation between my mental health and my desires.

I just wanted to see if anyone else would weigh in with their thoughts. No judgement of course. Feel free to PM me if you arent comfortable sharing here.

I guess I'm wondering as well if there is a point it becomes unhealthy.