Riptide, that's hard coming from your background but it sounds like she feels she isn't able to help you as you need and was trying to suggest other places to try where you'd get better help; she wasn't rejecting you (as you say, she doesn't know you) she was showing her own limitations in helping you. T's specialize in certain things and she doesn't feel qualified to help you.

Did you check out the clinic? It probably has people there that might be a better fit for you. Can you call your old T and talk with him/her on the phone about the situation and get a professional view that way that you know and trust? I think that would help give me courage to try again.