I cold called my wife and asked her for a date after my father suggested my mom wanted me out of the house. . My wife lived around the corner and we never spoke a word to each other in the 15 years I lived there. You and I share the same cosmic spouse - my wife puts up with a lot from me. While my BP is much better than it used to be, I still tend to act erratically and rant and rave on occasion. We've been married for 24 years. I honestly can't believe we made it this far. Happy anniversary to you, Sister cln1812.