. Start with short as Possible :

. Can that be possible at your present thought process?
Your visions as to ,, future ,, kids ,, & everything else . You made a choice to leave and things drifted apart ?? = you didn't know what happened ?

So then , [ after relationship ended ] , during the drifting apart ,, { as I think I am reading right } . You in 2003 & 2005 ,,, you ended it because it "started to fall apart big time ".? But you al still mutually hung up on one another for what ever reasons as you alls convo went .

But you had issuses that needed to be discussed ???

>>>>>>. Actually I have had the samething happen , = I CALLED IT M O V E ON !!!

Hope that supports you without offense ,,, Why Beat a Dead Horse .!!! .

Am editing the last part of this post >>>>. Read some other of your posts ,,,,, and found some say the same thing >>>> at the end you say If you have any advice or comments <<< { not verbatum } but same desire .... others opinions . . Oh shoot ,,, forgot to edit ,,,,,,,,,,,,, darn.