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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl2
My last narcopath friend was a gigantic douche bag. He would grasp at anything to try to hurt me. Even my dead parents weren't off limits. I chose to focus on his good attributes but it becomes exhausting.
Each one has known exactly how to tug at my heart strings and sucker me into their crap over and over again. The most famous line: no one understands me like you do or you're my best friend. I get guilted into putting up with too much for too long.
I'm just done.
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That’s exactly right. As soon as a so-called friend takes jabs, simply get rid of them. Their fawning of love to try to suck you back in is only going to lead right back to their taking jabs once again or worse.
I’ve always been attracted to funny, quirky people like me. Sometimes these people turn out to be really bad, mean spirited users/abusers. I am not this kind of a person.
I’ll probably keep gravitating to these kinds of people, so I need to beware of toxic behaviors in them and then dump them when that becomes apparent. But plenty of funny, quirky friends have been nothing but great friends and good people. So keep an open mind.