Thanks, Art. Sometimes I think I'm crazy to be sharing so much...but it helps me in some way. For a long time, I thought maybe I needed someone who was well versed in transference, who could work through that with me and be comfortable with it. That maybe I should run screaming from this T. But I think he really has helped me and has the potential to continue helping me. Part of his approach scare me, but maybe that's what I need to move forward, to overcome that fear, to accept someone being completely honest with me.