Miss charlotte, I feel you are doing the right thing in finding another T on reading what you have said here. It sounds like this T has never come across someone that he couldn't automatically "fix" and is now running around like a headless chicken looking for ways to find his own ground! I hope you find someone else that is better able to support you in your journey! charging for phone calls between sessions to me is like robbing the dead, they are supposed to be there to support us when we hit fall out from sessions!