Thank you seesaw, I absolutely understand. It's so rude that people ask you about your medical info! I seriously don't understand how someone can't see this is inappropriate! They have absolutely no regard for how that person might feel. I understand when a kid under 6 or under 10 asks such a question but anyone older than that? Why would they even do that, for what reason? It's beyond me.

You're so right. Instead of being ashamed and wanting to hide under the ground I will make it about them! I will point out their rudeness and that they have no right to ask this question. I will make them embarrassed! In a polite way, of course, I'm not the type who enjoys conflict.