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I dont see bad stuff happening in my future no. I have been married for almost 3 years and I have no children. That's right I didnt know what happened why you ask is because beginning of the relationship with my ex from his side of family has been tense for a while due to problems with his mother over our relationship and I always think that she had a part of this that made him go over the edge.
Relationship ended in 2003 and our contact had become less. Back in 2005 when he learned that I got married that's when H broke loose. Correct for a short period of time I was trying to get my belongings back from him after 4 years of relationship and basically the communication went on basically battling with him trying to get my stuff back which he didnt want to give back and thats when he started becoming verbally abusive after all this he sent me stuff just last year after 4 years.
As I said before I wanted to do the right thing and dicuss the tension that has been built up for a long time but it was always him hanging up the phone or I dont want to talk about it. Sort of thing. So i left it alone and one day things will unfold by it self.
. Can that be possible at your present thought process?
Your visions as to ,, future ,, kids ,, & everything else . You made a choice to leave and things drifted apart ?? = you didn't know what happened ?
So then , [ after relationship ended ] , during the drifting apart ,, { as I think I am reading right } . You in 2003 & 2005 ,,, you ended it because it "started to fall apart big time ".? But you al still mutually hung up on one another for what ever reasons as you alls convo went .
But you had issuses that needed to be discussed ???
>>>>>>. Actually I have had the samething happen , =
I CALLED IT M O V E ON !!!
Hope that supports you without offense ,,,
Why Beat a Dead Horse .!!! 
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Am editing the last part of this post >>>>.
Read some other of your posts ,,,,, and found some say the same thing >>>> at the end you say If you have any advice or comments <<< { not verbatum } but same desire .... others opinions . . Oh shoot ,,, forgot to edit ,,,,,,,,,,,,, darn.
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