I understand though my dilemma is different. I love my house but T has been suggesting I should think about moving to a smaller place in a building with people, or a retirement hotel. I wasn't afraid in my house until I got this health condition. Now I'm almost continually anxious. However, it would take a year to go through all of the stuff my husband and I kept for over 40 years! I'm doing it with someone I pay, but it's very slow.

I get that it's overwhelming for you to make a decision. Have you made a list of pros and cons for staying vs retirement? Are these drastic changes for sure? Is there any room for grey, or is it all black and white? Do you have a deadline? Can you see how these changes affect you and then decide?

It's hard, I know. I'm even more anxious when I think about moving out of my house! I'd rather get well instead! I'm sure you'd rather not have the changes happen in your job.