Well, all of my life, since I can remember, there have been concerns of my mother's commitment to my father. Last night it turns out that she had been having a four or five year affair with a previous coworker...

I feel like I've been abused, because I've been put through this routine since I was little. Always starts with accusations and denials, then it escalates to screaming and crying(on my side.). I feel like I can never forgive my mother for what she has done to my family...the first time I saw my father cry and I made that descision.

I told my mother that I no longer wished to communicate with her and I wanted her to have no part in my life. I can't help feeling like I've been harsh, but for what she destroyed in me I will always feel that way.

Ughh, that felt a little better. Does anybody think that I may have been too harsh...any advice? I could use it.