MissCharlotte,
I thought of you all day! I am so sorry that you are in so much pain! I wrote you a response while I had a break at work. I am now hesitant to share it with you for several reasons - 1) it really hits home with me so I am quite biased (towards you, of course) and 2) you will be seeing T at 5:00 and I don't want to 'stir the pot' as it were. I'm looking forward to hearing how it went! May the force be with you.
If you don't feel better after this session, I'm sending Jabba the Hut over to fill in the assprint and to give your T @#$$. No more Mrs. nice guy!