First of all I dont subscribe to religion either. That doesnt mean it isnt interesting to talk about.

As for what peoples motives are, I personally try not to make assumptions because i simply dont know.

Staying at home is great if you cant find honest work.....but who is paying your bills? My parents both died a long time ago. I've been fending for myself since I was kicked out at 17, while in grade 12. There was no option to stay home.

I also dont judge those who fall for scams. Scams play on peoples vulnerabilities. We all have our kryptonite.

I totally understand where you are coming from. In currently resided to the fact that I dont get people, as a species, let alone anything they do.