It depends on the person, the nature of the blowup & the degree to which I'm conscious of/believe where culpability lies in the events.

Different folks act in different ways, so I have to make adjustments in how I treat them & how I expect to be treated. Recovery from a core breach situation, usually requires enough time/space for sufficient cool down, but eventually some action to prevent permanent scarring. Sometimes, it's worth exploring the causes with the other person - other times less so - again, it depends on the friend & the blowup.

(But it pays to always keep a spoon & some vegetable projectiles handy, in case of future core breaches...)