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Ingridave2 said:
Please men....remember that we are partners in a marriage meaning we have to make decisions together.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Ingridave2, that is such a good one. I experienced that many times in my marriage--my H making unilateral decisions. It made me feel like, "ummm, excuse me, do I even exist?" So that is very, very good advice, and it goes both ways (for both men and women). For important decisions, the partner needs to be consulted.