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Old Aug 12, 2018, 05:50 PM
*Laurie* *Laurie* is offline
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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark View Post
Laurie, even today I have to fight to not smile, but when I was little know one would ever believe me because I smiled and it got me into trouble. I think I smiled because the look they gave me was funny when they are mad or that I know they were overreacting to something. I agree on the defense mechanism. Maybe I thought if I smiled it would calm them down. I don't know. I watch people and it's definitely a little kid thing. I don't see too many adults smiling like that, although most adults don't smile these days.

Really interesting, LL. I need to practice compassion. My guess is that the smiling is almost always the result of bad childhood experiences. My life-long best friend smiles "inappropriately" and her parents were severely mentally unwell, abusive people. Really sad.