You can rationalize this to the nth degree. I ask you one simple question: why stay with someone who treats you poorly? If only one of those things in your title is true things can only get worse over time. Maybe it's time to think about leaving him. No one should have to be treated that way.
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True happiness comes not when we get rid of all our problems, but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice patience and learn.~Richard Carlson
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