I decided to put an email together to my in-laws to tell them some of what is going on with their son (my husband). Explained to them that he needs their support.....he has messed things up so bad that I can't be there to be any support with all the anger triggers he pushes in me.....there is nothing I can do at this point except to leave....but that they should care about their son & be there so support & guide him & let them know that it's suggested that a trustee be set up to handle his affairs after the divorce goes through.

Told them that I had intended on trying a separation & see if he might come around if not now....maybe in the future....but after the IRS situation.....NO way can I be there for him....I cannot take the take the risk of having him destroy me financially in the future.

I let them know that I still care but he needs to hear from others because he won't hear or listen to what I have to say.

Hope they understand...I expressed it the best way I could......sat there for a few minutes wondering if I should push the send or not.....then I did.

Will see....of course, if they don't communicate any better than their son...I won't hear a thing from them either.

Debbie