Hello All,

So I have been with a therapist since January of this year. I have discussed my husband on many occasions and decided to try marriage counseling. My therapist said that just listening to my accounts of my husband he has a good inclination that he most likely has high functioning Aspergers and it could explain a lot about my issues with him. He said he worked with Aspergers and Autism for a while and can spot them pretty quickly. Our first appointment together is this Thursday so he will be able to confirm or not.

Now I have gone online and read the horror stories of the poor wives regarding years of marriage to a man with undiagnosed husbands with Aspergers. It just does not fit me but I realize there is always a spectrum and the stories online are usually the most extreme. (I have been treated for BPD but high functioning and low on the spectrum but the stories on line were always extreme and really never truly fit my experience).

Can anyone tell me their experience and if their marriage has lasted or what helped.?