What's the back pain about? Debbie is right, this is the last time you are going to be able to go to the bathroom without thinking of your child for a very long time. This is the last time you will be able to eat ''''''. This is the last time you will get to sleep"""""". You get my drip huh? It's a life changing event and here you are stuck on bedrest. Yuck! Be patient, it's coming sooner or later, he can't stay in there forever.