I suspect my soon to be ex husband might be slightly on spectrum, but no therapist ever said anything, and the marriage counseling didn’t help.

I wish some answer like that had been the case and we had gotten the help we needed earlier. Maybe we could have saved the marriage.

I also was diagnosed EDD and borderline traits, but I never had any signs of this until the frustration with this man brought it out in me in my late 30’s, and it is only him that caused me such hysteria.