Hi!

I'm a newbie here.
I recently got married and moved to Hong Kong. I stayed in USA for couple years and the moved to Hong Kong.
I feel sick with Hong Kong. Hong Kong is very materialistic place. I feel i don't belong here. Women in Hong Kong is really look oriented. They have to dress up all the time and make up all the time. They constantly feel scared of getting fat. I know lots of women scared of getting fat but Hong Kong women is even more. I feel cultured shocked here. I have nobody to talk to here. I think if i don't keep up with those women I don't feel good and i feel defeated especially with my sister in law. I don't really like my family in law. I admit that i feel jealous to her. She always can spend as much as she want for clothing and makeup so she can always dress up good. I have to save money since me and my husband just bought an apartment. I know that apartment is more precious than clothing and etc. But I still feel bad about that. My sister in law always look so proud of herself. She always need couple hours to dress up before she goes out. The other thing i hate about her is she always think she's right. She's very bossy also. She likes to control everybody and gives order to everybody . She always insists her way to my husband. She and my husband work together in family business. Even she made a mistake, she never admit she's wrong. If things doesn't go the way she wants she feel angry and depressed. My husband feels bad to work with her. My brother in law doesn't enjoy having vacation with her. My mother in law always spoil my sister in law. She only wants to go to places that she want if not she got angry. She's such a control freak. I know she's not that good person but i feel like jealous, angry and lately i feel down. I'm jealous that she can do whatever she wants. I'm angry that nobody can do anything about her. I feel down because i feel so isolated here and I don't feel as confident as before. I feel i need to make sense why she 's such a control freak, arrogant and selfish. Plus i feel my relationship with my new husband is not going so well as i thought. When we lived in USA , we were so happy and then now he seems different maybe because his family was in USA.
My sister in law always try to show her love to her fiance in front of everybody. She talks so loud with her fiance and kissing, hugging, joking etc etc in front everybody it's like they want to show the world they are happy . I know i have to stop comparing with her. Can anybody help me ?
Thanks for reading post.