I unfortunately don't have any support at home. My H has a lot of issues him self, but won't do anything about them. He thinks he has made it this far in life, so why fix things. He has said a couple times that he would go to anger management, but when the time comes it is, he is fine. He is like this with seeing a Dr., a Dentist, ect. He was pushed when he was young, that he had to be a tough man, like Jon Wane for a example, and that is how he is. As far as my weight goes, he has told me so many times that all the females in his family are very over weight, and he won't be with anyone overweight, and that especially means me!!!