You both deal with MI? On one hand that should give you both a better understanding/insight into the extra things that you each have to deal with. On the other, sometimes it's still hard to spot/understand what's going on in someone else's mind.

Glad you're happier now.

This song is what immediately popped into my head when I read the thread title - not because of the story, but just that one line & the fact that it's a nice tune...