After a month of hell from my boyfriend, long distance-see each other 2 months-I broke it off. Then I realized and had confirmed from his ex wife that he is bi-polar. I didn't get details. I do not believe he has been on meds since I have been with him. Stress at work triggered a major cycle. I have worked with bipolar and know a bit the disorder. I love this man very much and am now only upset he hadn't told me about when he seen where we were going. In a more lucid moment he asked me not hurry on breaking up, that he would be normal again sometime. Said it is just best to leave him alone right now. And that he thinks of me all the time. I want to be there for him, but I think I trigger things right now. (I'm in contact with his ex. She seems to be his safe zone and he calls her). I messaged him a hug, said I thought he could use one. Three days later he read it saying he did and was sending me one too. I'm confused, down, anxious, and worried about him.