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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty
Oh that makes sense. I don't think I would ever tell a T I loved them if I would have had that experience. Luckily, my second T just accepted it and we never really talked about it but every time I said it to her she would follow up with how much she cares about me, which I believe. I guess it would be something to be careful with in the future since I'm having to look for a new T. Its bad enough being vulnerable, but to have the whole foundation change because of expression of a feeling that would really be hard. I'm sorry you went through all that. I'm glad your current T seems to be more accepting and understanding. Hugs if you want them.  |
Thanks, SK. I'll take the hugs!
I don't want anyone to be scared off by my experience. Other T's may be very accepting, it can just be risky. It's especially confusing with ex-MC because he'd seemed accepting of those feelings from me before. But...it's kind of complicated, because also in between the last expression of love and the more recent one, his wife passed away (long-term illness), so not sure if that affected his reaction at all.