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Old Aug 15, 2018, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted by bluebicycle View Post
I'm upset. My therapist finally admitted that I have flat facial affect and flat vocal tone (i.e., monotonous voice). She said that these two things combined may put people off from talking to me or being my friend because I don't correctly react emotionally to what people say to me. She says that people may think I'm bored or uninterested in them.

She offered to help me, but I don't know why she didn't offer help before. It's kind of mean to let me be this way without helping. Or maybe I just have too high expectations. Idk. But she knew I was having social problems, so she should have helped. She only offered this help AFTER my reevaluation and AFTER I asked.
I can understand why you are frustrated. I think I would be, too. Sometimes I think the professionals are gauging what to tell us and what not to tell us, and I find myself wondering what my pdoc is really thinking or picking up on. I often want to just say "out with it, what are you noticing?". I hope that she is able to help and it improves your social life.
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Thanks for this!
CantExplain, Wild Coyote