I never had support growing up either. I've never chosen to be in a relationship so I never had stress from that. But I have several close friends and it's not like I get angry with them more then they with me. I don't really understand why someone have to grow up a violent sociopath because of aspergers. What in the environment triggers that? To me it sounds like blaming the condition.

If you were beaten and mistreated sure you can develop sociopath, but so can others that don't have aspergers.

If both you and your wife are violent, YES that will affect your child!