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Originally Posted by bitt516
so my girlfriend for last year is married. yes, i know, she and i are horrible people. but he husband is a emotionally and mentally abusive little man who thinks its funny to make her cry on a daily basis. anywho, he recently found out about us and shes upset because her marriage will end. the thing is is that she was ALREADY GONNA DIVORCE HIM in the first place. so i dont understand why she cares if her marriage is gonna end. she has mentioned a numerous amount of times that she hates him, so my question is...
why does she care that her marriage is inploding, if she was going to get a divorce anyways?
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Because, cheaters typically lie and say over and over that they are going to divorce their spouses for you. it's a manipulation and a way to hold a carrot in front of you so that you keep staying with them in spite of the fact they never plan to divorce. her true intentions just showed to you.
Also the other lie is also to make the other spouse a monster as an excuse to cheat and justify your adulterous relationship. May be true but most times it's at the very least very exaggerated or fabricated.
Think about this, do you really want to commit yourself to someone that is clearly deceitful enough to cheat rather than leave one mate before finding another? if you think it can't or wont happen to you, typically cheaters keep cheating. So you'd probably end up being the monster next for her excuse to cheat with the new guy that looked greener on the other side of the fence.
suggestion: walk away, find yourself an unattached woman to date.