My hubby just yelled in my face and pushed me down hard on my shoulders whilst doing so, pinning me to the bed.

He’s never been this angry before. I made him so mad, I feel so guilty.

He wants to go on a stag do for a 4 day weekend. I can’t cope looking after the young children on my own. Am I being selfish? I would not just leave him alone with the children and jet off, using our savings in the process. It’s so much money, he’s going abroad and we haven’t even as a family!

He’s always going to gigs and coming back late from work meals. Am I being unreasonable? When this guy was his best man, they had a meal out as a stag do, that was all. This guy wants to go abroad and party.

He’s saying I’m controlling him. Does he realise I have no control, not even over myself?? I feel so sad.