I felt bad when my daughter was finally diagnosed with nonverbal learning disorder, but I realize that I was dealing with abuse from my ex and my own mistreated/untreated disorders. I helped my daughter the best I could at that time. She is doing better now, so I am grateful for that.

Just saying that it's not your fault. You're having to deal with your illnesses and supporting your family with their illnesses. It takes a lot out of you.