My brother and I always had a strained relationship. Once my dad's estate was settled I never heard from him again. My dad's mother has Alzheimer's and wouldn't remember me. My mom's mother harassed me shortly before my mom died of cancer. I don't speak to her. I'm FB friends with my dad's sister but I haven't told her anything. I think she would freak out if I told her about the abuse.

I cut them off a long time ago because of all the family drama. I didn't need that while I was raising my daughter and trying to earn a living. My aunt was the most considerate out of all of them.