I'm confused. So he's been wonderful for all of these years until now. And he's headed out for several days, draining your family savings for a stag party and picking a fight with you and claiming the marriage is in trouble.

1 thing that I know about"arguments" before some "independent" time away from responsibility is that it's all about them trying to self justify a sense of freedom from all responsibility if you know what I mean.

And you are caught in the light of the fire so to speak. It is a head trip that leaves you begging them for mercy when they should be thankful that any woman would be kind enough to even put up with them...