Please know that growth necessitates questioning what we have been taught and eventually deciding our own path, which may or may not be congruent with earlier life teachings.

It can be very tough to "individuate" like this in a very religious setting. During our time of questioning/seeking, we could use some support. Many religious groups are not very supportive of questioning their beliefs/practices.

A therapist might be very helpful to you, lending you both confidentiality and support while you sort out your own beliefs at this point in your life.

I had grown up on a very religious group of people. When I had started to honestly question some teachings/beliefs, I was ostracized. That hurt me deeply. I had continued searching for my own Truths and, although this was a very difficult path initially, it's been well worth it. I am very content with my own path/beliefs and they do not match the same beliefs/path as my blood relatives. I honor each of their paths and expect them to honor mine.

I am encouraging you to find your own path, which is a part of growing/maturing. I hope you can find support in your quest for your own Truth.

I am excited for you!


WC