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Originally Posted by *Laurie*
Oh for pete's sake. This single incident in your otherwise good marriage is not cause for dramatic action. Tell him you want to go get some coffee with him, be reasonable and firm - but not defensive and angry - and really listen to why he wants to go on a 4-day stag. 4 days is excessive. It sounds like he's aware of that, and defensive about it. Talk it out, be a mature couple. Best to you...I believe that this can be worked out.
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Pushing someone down and pinning them to the bed isn’t something to take lightly. Regardless if it’s single incident or not. Abuse also always escalates. I can’t imagine being pushed down and pinned to the bed and then go for coffee with him. Perhaps this could be worked out but typically men capable of physical violence towards women aren’t going to stop after one incident. And they don’t become abusive in one day