Many Ts care but wont hug because of ethics. The lines can get very blurred very fast.

I faced a similar situation but my T was compassionate and caring while still remaining where he sat. Do I long for a hug? Well sure, but I appreciate why he doesn't. Even had ugly cries after and sometimes nearly ran into him, he always shows care even if I struggle with it. Even if it still means he has to get to his next client.

Hang in there, talk about it with your T. There are plenty of Ts who care. Ethics code sometimes gets in the way.